If it smells good it smells good. I really don't understand why some fragrances are marketed by gender. I own two that are classified as feminine, Chanel Sycomore and Chanel Coromandel. Both lean well towards the masculine side of unisex IMO, and both garner many compliments from the ladies. Just wear what you want. Admittedly a few really floral ones are too girly for me, Frederic Malle's Carnal Flower springs to mind, but ultimately it doesn't matter what other people think.
Of the Tom Fords I own and enjoy Tuscan Leather, Extreme, Tobacco Vanille and Grey Vetiver. I have tested Black Orchid but it was a bit too dark on my skin. I quite liked it but at Tom Ford prices I need to more than "quite" like something if I am to buy it!