Hiya,
First of all, let me assure anyone reading this that it's not a slam or attack of any kind .....seriously. I'd just like to explain my thoughts in general terms about threads being deleted. No offense at all meant towards you Steve....ok?
Making posts go away can be a good thing, but sometimes I find they're better off being left there for others to read. In this case, I totally agree with what BK said on that subject. Having some sorta past history record to point to is very handy for finding info like how a vendor's work stacks up. It's nice (and easy) to just point to an old thread when someone asks about that subject in the future. If there's no written record, then the 'history' can easily become blurred or skewed in some way. One important thing to see is how everything turns out, like if the situation is resolved ok or not.
Believe me, I know that threads can sometimes get outta hand and feelings can rise. Lots of times it's easy to see the way those are going (towards deletion), but there's another solution available before it self destructs. Just lock the thread....done deal. If a member can't do that himself, he could ask a mod to handle the request.
I swear to God, that particular vendor has a charmed shaving forum life. This is two deleted threads I'm aware of that could be helpful to some members in making a decision on what to do. Turns out he did refund the price on that item in question, so there's something good to say. There's also other stuff not so good that's missing as well. Steve, how did your deal finally turn out?
Ok, I should just end this now. Deleting posts is a sore spot for me and I can get carried away. You gentle members here wouldn't know this about me, but I've had countless posts deleted because of being involved in some nasty flame wars on other forums (shaving and non shaving). Yeah, what I posted was justified and in context and correct, but I didn't say those things in a pleasant way. Hah, I can't direct you to those because they all went Poof! Too bad, it was some fun reading.
Ok......enough. I like all you guys and everyone has their own way of doing things.
Martin
Dipesh said:
If you want to see what happened to my bits then your more than welcome to send me a PM. I'm not the type of guy who likes to say bad things about people.
Now there with Dave to get done correctly.
What's doin buddy,
You sorta know me a little bit by now, and I'm with you. I hate posting bad stuff about people, although sometimes it's necessary. The problem with forums like TSR is we all take people to be honest and up front about themselves. Sometimes that is just not the case, and it can take a long time for the problem to surface. Might be a member not sending something out and just taking the cash, or it might be someone offering a service that's just not a good value.
To me, it's times like that when typing something negative is a help, rather than a distraction or attack. I would MUCH rather post something positive, but have no problem being very blunt to someone if it's justified.
Martin