Hi I own the entire range of TOBS creams and love most of them. OK what I've found is if you use too much cream and not enough water they all dry your face out or can cause a little itchiness nothing compared to full on irritation but can be tingly not in a mentholated way. TOBS coconut is nothing compared to trumpers coconut IMHO. trumpers wins hands down. TOBS version isn't a bad choice it smells like dessicated coconut and performs similar to the grapefruit just slicker. I've returned some TOBS back to sellers and TOBS themselves when they have come to me quite dry and hard (old stock I was told) they should be 'creamy in texture and moist to the touch' (quote from TOBS themselves).
Best scents are Eton college, Grapefruit, sandalwood and Mr Taylors. Jermyn makes me itch like I have crabs (never had crabs for the record) so recently sold this. Not tried any of their hard soaps simply because the creams are easier to validate as old stock or new and perform superbly.
In terms of skin care I would choose avocado, or Mr Taylors cream. Many people quote almond here, I agree that's it's good although the scent of strong marzipan may make others think it's too perfumed so can't be great.
I would never again buy the lemon and lime. To me it smelt like lemon flash toilet cleaner. I also wouldn't buy their luxury post shave cream again or Jermyn Street as both caused my skin to itch. Everything else cream and cologne wise is quality. If I had to choose one for my remaining shaves it would be sandalwood but I would argue with myself over Eton college too. Of course YMMV.