I had my first shave this morning with the R41. It felt a bit strange due to the style of open comb. I'm more used to the Merkur 25c open comb which has the more traditional design.
The shave was very mild, and probably no more closer than any other razor after 2 passes.
I did use a Wilkinson Sword Classic razor blade, one of the milder blades to try. The razor handle is really good, well balanced. The razor was not the fearsome beast I thought it would be.
However, for a mild shave - hold the razor at the normal 30 or so degrees when shaving. For a close shave - move the handle up to a shallower angle and go carefully. If the shave is too close, simply move the handle back down to around 30 degrees. The longer handled version may work better for this.
I did try doing this for this morning's shave, with a persona platinum blade, and it made no difference. But I did try a third pass, and that is where the razor does bite. This happens with most razors anyway, which is why I stick to 2 passes.
After I've passed the razor on to the next person, I'll probably revisit my Merkur 25c open comb. It may not have as glamorous a handle as the R41, and more a bog standard open comb design, but I have found it to be milder and that it cuts through stubble much more easily.