They both turned up yesterday.
Thierry Mugler A*Men 110ml EDT spray
Issey Miyake L'Eau D'Issey Pour Homme EDT Spray 125ml
To be sure, with the A*Men, I've found something that lasts (on me, at least). Distinctly unusual smell which I have no intention trying to describe in the florid and outrageous terms I see on the reviews. BUT fortunately I really like it and I think it'll be a firm fave along with one or two other long standing smellies (primarily Aramis, Kouros, Eau Savage, Agua de Colonia Concentrada and, possibly Aaron Aromatics Driftwood (which Executive have now stopped selling, it seems).
The other Issey one (with a name I'll never remember), is passed to the wife. She likes it..I think it's OK. So we're all happy.
I admit I would very much like to have sniff of the 'Kiehls Musk' (thanks Nishy).... but can't see it available to try locally. Next time I go to Exeter or Plymouth I'll def. give it a go.
So, for me the search is prob over, given that I could go on for ever and must admit that most of the ones I try don't go down too well and it's tricky to try too many in Boots as more than two tests and it's all mixed into one and smells dreadful. Thanks for all the suggestions.