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hando said:WHOA
and how do you expect us to get our Aqua Velva then, eh?
selfish twat :roll:
:lol: :lol: :lol: nice one
hando said:WHOA
and how do you expect us to get our Aqua Velva then, eh?
selfish twat :roll:
hando said:WHOA
and how do you expect us to get our Aqua Velva then, eh?
selfish twat :roll:
hando said:WHOA
and how do you expect us to get our Aqua Velva then, eh?
selfish twat :roll:
FrenchBlade said:Campeche, MexicoBlyth Spirit said:Latin America is a large part of a continent; can you narrow it down a little?
Max
I've been told that before, and have done a lot of introspection over the last few years, especially when I quit a cushy job 7 years ago, to go in to nursing, I think I'm on the right path to finding what I'm looking for, but will I recognise it when I find it? I'm not sure who said it, but "happiness is a direction, not a destination", I don't think I can ever be entirely happy, because that would mean I'd have nothing more to live for.soapalchemist said:But I think maybe when you find yourself always looking elsewhere, you need to look more within. Not to say put up with second best, or make do. But I came to realise that in my case anyway, really I was running away from myself....
That hit right home, I might actually fear regretting not going more than going itself, and yes, the financial side would allow me to do a U-turn within 6-9 months.Attero said:Go with your heart. Sod what everyone else is doing, that's their thing. You have to do Your thing.
...Your situation allows you to be the adventurer.
...Plus lets face it, if you hate it - you can always come home.
...But if you don't go - you will never know.
...Live the dream FB.
I tend to half agree with this, my ex, moved to Peru 4 years ago, the only reason we split up was her dream of moving to peru was not compatible with my current situation.Ids said:Only thing I can say is you when it's time to stay put because something like this wouldn't of even been an issue and yes it usually involves a girl.
I'll look out for that one, love booksFido said:Reminds me of one of my favourite books:
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This is a very accurate statement Johnny! Hitting the nail on the head there...JohnnyO said:2) You can see it as a great opportunity however you feel that if you go for it this may be saying goodbye to one of the last realistic chances you have of settling in to a certain type of lifestyle which, because you don't have it and many of your friends have, you still have a yearning for.
Personally not too worried about the oil, they can just scoop it out of the sea over there.. (ok, bad joke! ) The one thing that does worry me a bit is the political situation with narco gang warfare, and colombia etc... I've been told the people I'll work for are government officials, and have pretty good security, but then again, maybe also bigger targets? I don't feel like being taken hostage by some narco dealer and his pals.. (probably very unlikely!)Adam D said:My only concern with the decision that you face is the country itself Mexico. From what I have read elsewhere Mexico is quite a big oil exporter at the moment, but its oil is running out fast and when this happens it may cause quite severe economic problems.
Brilliant post, which I would have quoted in it's entirety, buy it would repeat a bit much in the thread.N_Architect said:Max, seems the world is your oyster - and your home. You've grown up by having to move round the globe few times. You're accustomed to different cultures and languages. You feel 'at home' living in such a context. I see no significant reason why you wouldn't want to take another step, another new challenge. For you the challenges are not just 'career-related', moving up the corporate ladder or whatever else. They are also cultural, filmy, they are part of the education which you are acquiring from life as you grow older.
Taking account your age it appears it is not that easy for you to 'settle down', at least yet. What you appear to be in is a journey to discover more, inside but also outside you. How will this journey will continue nobody knows. Seems it has yet to reach an end, at least yet.
Moving around like that (few years here, then few more years there, etc.) has a cost attached to it, though. This cost is personal, and in theory needs to be compensated by the financial, housing and other benefits one gets while away from 'home'. This is the general rule. In some particular professions, there are some 'standards' which are adhered by employers. I heard recently, for example, that if you work for Microsoft you don't get 'expat' status when abroad. Don't know if this is true or if it was different some years back.
Hindsight is always 20/20 :shock:RB73 said:Only you can pacify that voice in your head before you go to sleep fella and hindsight is only available after you've taken the jump.
So get that parachute and enjoy the free fall before you pull the rip cord.
Alton_Bee said:IF you decide not to go ahead with this move is it something you will regret in years to come ??
moodymick said:Do it - you only live once and you're a long time dead.
Thanks guys!IanM said:I'm inclined to put my feet firmly in the 'go for it' circle of this particular Venn Diagram.
RB73 said:Have you researched any Mexican shaving gear that might be available for group buys yet fella :hungrig
hunnymonster said:He can hop over the border to the US (at his expense obviously) and send it from there :lol:hando said:WHOA
and how do you expect us to get our Aqua Velva then, eh?
selfish twat :roll:
JohnnyO said:Still nearing wetting meself at the "selfish twat" thought ! Oh, I did enjoy that.
JohnnyO.
On a second note, I'm sort-of back with the girl that fled to Peru all those years ago, she's currently in France, but will be going back by the end of the month, no idea how we're going to sort that, but we'll see when we get there.FrenchBlade said:I tend to half agree with this, my ex, moved to Peru 4 years ago, the only reason we split up was her dream of moving to peru was not compatible with my current situation.Ids said:Only thing I can say is you when it's time to stay put because something like this wouldn't of even been an issue and yes it usually involves a girl.
(financial/work wise) and I did not want to be dependent on her.
We could have settled down in France, do the whole thing, but knowing how important travel is for my well being, I knew how important it was for hers.
It's what they say, If you love someone enough, let them go, if they don't come back, it was never meant to be. I could never stifle someones dreams, no matter how much I love them.